Mazel tov!
July 26th, 2010Ming and I attended our first Jewish wedding yesterday and had a blast! Ming got to wear a kippah, a Jewish skullcap, during the ceremony in the synagogue. He would had left it on for the duration of the banquet but it fell off (oops). There was a little hair clip inside, but it just didn’t stay on very well - must be that straight, slippery Chinese hair!
One theme I noticed throughout the wedding and dinner was the emphasis on family. Both parents walked down the aisle with the bride and groom, stood alongside the wedding party under the chuppa (canopy used in Jewish weddings), and took part in the ceremony. Parents were also lifted up on chairs during the hora (celebratory dance at the beginning of the banquet) after the bride and groom were lifted up. Even during the speeches, everyone emphasized the blending of two families, and not just the two individuals, and how each one of them was dearly loved and treated as though they were already a part of the family.
Another theme was dancing, and boy, was there a lot of dancing! From the moment the bride and groom arrive, there’s the hora, and then people are just dancing pretty much throughout dinner (except for a 20min break during the main course). This was our first time attending a wedding where a live band played (note: we usually play music off CDs or iPODs at Chinese weddings!). This band was amazing - they played all night, new songs, old songs, they never once sounded tired, and they looked like they were having just as good a time as everyone on the dance floor! It was so cute to see people young and old on the dance floor having a good time, and it really added a celebratory feel to the evening.
Now, about the food - there was a plethora of food last night! It was all so good, and kosher! Firstly the passed appetizers during cocktail hour - sliders (ie. bite-size hamburgers, so cute, so yummy), thick slices of smoked turkey and corned beef (think Schwartz’s) with mini-buns and a variety of yummy mustards and pickles, luscious smoked salmon with lots and lots of toppings (chopped egg yolks, chopped egg whites, minced shallots, lemon slices, capers, etc.) and more good bread, satay chicken on a stick, etc. It was also the first wedding we went to with an open bar - there was no drunken behaviour, but the bar was packed all throughout the evening, and I can’t only imagine how long that talley at the end of the night must have been! Green apple martinis were passed around, so I stole a sip from my colleague’s glass. Very green apple-y, very sweet, which means dangerous to drink b/c it’s probably all liquour! I was satisfied with just one sip to taste =)
I was starving by the time the ceremony was done, so I gobbled up quite a few appetizers (daintily of course). Little did I know how much food there was going to be for the rest of the night! I brought the menu home with me, so that I could get it straight for you:
- Appetizers: Assorted breads, rolls, flat breads, crudites, olives, and pickles; Lemon hummus and red pepper hummus and tuscan bean spread
- First Course Trio Plate: Grilled halibut with tropical salsa, cucumber wrap with greens and herbed dressing, beggars purse filled with grilled vegetables on a drizzle of hoisin sauce
- Main Course: Grilled chicken supreme with mounds of wild mushrooms, green and yellow peppers, and a red wine reduction
- Sides: red bell pepper filled with diced carrots, green beans, and yellow beans; Garlic mashed potato rosette on a sweet potato fritter; Basket of sweet potato fries with ketchup
- Dessert: Molten chocolate cake with raspberry sauce and fresh berries; Three-tier stand with plates of assorted cookies (black/white checkerboard, chocolate chunk, and oatmeal), skewers of fresh fruit, and chocolate bark with cranberries and almonds
Then, there was tea and coffee. After which, more dessert was passed around: chocolate dipped cheesecake lollipops, bite size brownies, rice krispie squares dipped in chocolate, puff pastries with honey glaze, lemon mousse, tiramisu, strawberry shortcake… Oh yes, there was also a late night fresh pretzel stand. Whew!

